I have SO MUCH to say on this topic (even more so than usual), therefore I’m going to publish 2 separate posts on a later date which will explore the following:
- Cross Country (in line with recent discussions around gender inequality in XC running)
- Running in a group
This post will focus solely on my experiences of running alone (as a female, obviously), as my experience when running in a group has unsurprisingly been quite different.
As expected (although obviously this should not be expected!!), many of my unpleasant experiences have taken place when running in summer. I was once told by Hortencia (if you have read any of my previous posts, Hortencia is a fictional character representative of a variety of moronic people I have come across) that I’m “asking for it” by wearing short shorts. Obviously, the phrase “asking for it” is complete and utter BS and I find it SO infuriating that people still say this.
I want to emphasise that nothing terrible has ever happened to me when running alone; certainly nothing that breaches catcalling, innuendos and other inappropriate comments made by someone in a car or on a bike. I wouldn’t say that I have ever been majorly concerned about my safety – it’s more that I find it incredibly irritating – although recently, 2 men shouted at me from their car so abruptly that I ran into the middle of the road out of shock.
I hate to admit this, but a culmination of cat calling and mildly (sometimes REALLY) repulsive comments has made me feel slightly vulnerable. If I’m running in the summer months or in the evening, occasionally I select routes that avoid main roads because I simply cannot be bothered with the possibility of unwanted attention. Sometimes I wear headphones purely to block out the sound of potential unwanted attention (can’t hear the morons over my music!)
It infuriates me that sometimes I feel the need to modify my run due to the potential behavior of others. It infuriates me that I feel that I cannot run in a sports bra and shorts in 30-degree heat. It infuriates me that some of my friends will only run on a treadmill to avoid harassment. It infuriates me that in 2018 this is still an issue that needs to be discussed! In case you couldn’t tell, I’m INFURIATED.
It would be great to hear your thoughts on this – what has your experience been as a female runner? I’m also curious to know how you deal with unwanted behaviour when running – how do you respond?