Plogging & Plastic Free July

I will open this post by admitting that I am unsure whether I ‘passed’ or ‘failed’ plastic free July.  This was not through lack of effort or commitment; I am a strong minded individual, and very rarely give up on a goal I have set myself.

For those of you who may not be aware, plastic free July encourages people to eliminate the use of single-use plastic. I was inspired to take on plastic free July by Hortencia; I witnessed him (or her) throwing a Shnookle* in the bin, and I genuinely ran after him (OR HER) to question his behavior. His response was “oh I don’t really care and global warming doesn’t exist anyway” – an attitude which completely blows my mind.

I found plastic free July fairly simple when I only had myself to consider as I was taught from a young age to be environmentally conscious; my Dad has always drilled this into me. I’m also very lucky in the sense that it’s relatively easy to live plastic free in London, which I’m sure is not the case for many other cities!

However, cooking/eating/working with others has been a lot more challenging in terms of eliminating single use plastic. For example, a friend recently cooked for me using vegetables wrapped in plastic packaging, and there was no way that I was going to say, “oh sorry I’m not eating this meal you just spent over an hour preparing for me.” Perhaps I could have challenged her, and perhaps I SHOULD have challenged her, but in this situation I feel that would have been both rude and ungrateful.

Whilst this may mean I technically ‘failed’ plastic free July, participating in this movement has taught me two valuable lessons:

  1. I genuinely had no idea that most tea bags contain plastic**. I’m a massive tea drinker and therefore am rather embarrassed about this one, as it shows a lot of naivety on my part, but of course this new-found knowledge can only be a positive moving forward!
  2. So many running events are an environmental disaster. Of course, I was completely aware of this, but taking part in plastic free July forced me to confront it. Most of the races that I partake in are small, local events, therefore are inherently more environmentally friendly. Nonetheless, there are definitely a few things I can implement to become an eco-friendlier (is that a word?) runner. These include MORE PLOGGING, actually recycling my running shoes rather than clinging onto them until they smell like the actual fiery pits of hell, etc.

I would love to hear your feedback on plastic free July! Did you take part, and if so, how did you find it? I am also looking for recommendations for organised plogging events in and around London – please do let me know!

*A Shnookle does not exist. I made this up to protect Hortencia’s identity. I can confirm that this Shnookle was a re-usable item which absolutely did NOT need to be thrown away.

**Yorkshire Tea pledged to introduce a fully biodegradable tea bag by summer 2018 – does anyone know whether this has been implemented yet?

30 Before 30

As requested by all my fans #blessed, here is my official 30 Before 30 list.

I started pulling together this list together around 3 years ago, back when completing a 5K seemed absurd let alone completing a marathon!

Some of these ‘goals’ are cliché, some are slightly ridiculous (no. 10 – please don’t judge. I still don’t think I have completed this, as I did have a fair amount of assistance.)

Apologies for the one that is marked as CONFIDENTIAL, I am not trying to be mysterious/really irritating! And no, it’s not vulgar/inappropriate/gross.

  1. Complete a Half Marathon – DONE
  2. Complete a Full Marathon – DONE
  3. Complete an Ultra Marathon
  4. Join a running club – DONE
  5. Complete one of the Three Peaks Challenges – DONE
  6. Get 1st lady at ParkRun – DONE
  7. Complete a Tough Mudder
  8. Complete a Triathalon
  9. Learn how to play pool and beat all the men
  10. Change a lightbulb – DONE
  11. Volunteer at a homeless shelter at least twice per year – DONE
  12. Learn how to apologise to people – DONE
  13. Level 2 Gym Qualification & Level 3 PT Course – KIND OF DONE
  14. Hold a tarantula at London Zoo
  15. Own one of the following dogs: Chow Chow, Great Pyrenees, Daschund, Old English Sheepdog (only if I have suitable accommodation and am in a secure enough financial position to do so. If you can’t afford to care for your pet, you shouldn’t get one.)
  16. Host a massive dinner party. The mother of all dinner parties. How am I 27 and still unable to roast a chicken or poach an egg?! Basically, learn how to cook PROPERLY
  17. See Fleetwood Mac live (ASAP – they’re getting on a bit)
  18. Visit Dublin and drink ALL the wine
  19. VISIT ICELAND (and see the Northern Lights whilst sober)
  20. Trek the Inca Trail
  21. Visit the Yukon
  22. Visit Vienna – DONE
  23. Visit Dubai – DONE
  24. Spend Christmas in a snowy log cabin drinking mulled wine and other pretentious pastimes – DONE
  25. CONFIDENTIAL
  26. Start a blog – DONE
  27. Eat at one of the world’s best restaurants
  28. Produce my own podcast/vlog
  29. Buy house/flat
  30. Pursue my passion. BE BOLD BE BRAVE

Despite the multiple clichés, I am very content with this list. Am I missing anything essential?! Let me know your thoughts!

Also, if anyone has been to Iceland, any recommendations would be much appreciated!

Running & Personal Goals (Mid-Year Check-In)

As we are halfway through 2018 (which is mildly horrifying, and I don’t understand how this has happened), I thought this would be the perfect opportunity to discuss my running, fitness and personal goals for the remainder of the year.

Running & Fitness Goals

  1. Great North Run

The GNR has been on my to do list for a while, and this year I was lucky enough to secure a place through the ballot. Out of all runners I know who entered the GNR, somehow, I was the only one who was accepted, so please do let me know if you’re racing! We can go for post-race wines.

  1. Race outside of the UK

I am yet to participate in a race outside of the UK and have chosen the Frankfurt Marathon relay in September as my first race abroad. I will be running this in a team of four, and am EXTRA EXCITED as I am the fourth leg which means that I get to finish on the red carpet.

  1. Commit to my first Ultra-Marathon

This may seem like a bit of an odd goal, as I simply want to commit to signing up to an Ultra as opposed to completing one this year. My aim is to run my first Ultra in early 2019, although I’m concerned that this may interfere with marathon training – any ultra-marathoners, please can I have some advice on this?!

  1. Be braver on the bike

One of my goals this year was to start cycling as a form of cross-training, in addition to weight training. Unfortunately, I still LOATHE steep descents (and gentle descents. And all the other descents.) By the end of 2018, I would like to be at a stage where I am not riding down hills squealing like a deranged warthog.

  1. Improve upper body strength

I don’t really need to explain this one but can confirm that I am well on the way to achieving this goal with the help of my PT!

Personal Goals

  1. Be kinder to myself

SORRY this is such a cringe/predictable goal, but I think self-compassion is so important – and it is something I’m terrible at. This is probably the most challenging of all my goals, and one I shall elaborate on in a later post.

  1. S L E E P

I wake up at between 4:30am – 6:00am, as I prefer to do most of my training before work. On average, I get around 6 hours sleep per night, and therefore by 4pm often feel like the FIERY PITS OF HELL (slight exaggeration, but I do get grouchy and headachy.)  I also frequently fall asleep on the train home, and occasionally end up in rather inconvenient locations such as Brighton and Southampton. Therefore, prioritising sleep is of upmost importance!

  1. Make a hefty dent in my 30 before 30 list

I created a ’30 before 30’ list* around 3 years ago and have completed approximately half of the list. Time is of the essence and other such clichés; therefore, I feel I need to get cracking!

*This is essentially a 30 before 30 bucket list. I am more than happy to share this in my next post, so if anyone is interested please do let me know!

Yorkshire Three Peaks Challenge

A couple of days ago I completed the Yorkshire Three Peaks Challenge* alongside a group of wonderful ladies, and as per my previous post on Richmond 10K, DO NOT PANIC – this is not a dull step-by-step account of the event. In fact, the inspiration behind this post was a fellow runner informing me that as someone who runs regularly, the Three Peaks would be “incredibly easy and barely a challenge.” I can confirm that this was not the case (I never thought it would be the case because I’m not an absolute moron) and would like to point out that arrogance is never an attractive trait.

The Yorkshire Three Peaks Challenge covers almost the same distance as a marathon. However, I would like to highlight below why hiking this distance is not necessarily ‘easier’ than running a marathon**:

  1. Although hiking and running have many similarities, the difference in speed and gradient between the two activities alters the way in which the muscles are used. Tackling the Three Peaks has resulted in some unexpected hip abductor pain, which I have never experienced with running!
  1. I was carrying a backpack, which of course had an impact on my back muscles. I also packed the backpack with copious unnecessary items, such as a wooly hat and thermal trousers (it was one of the hottest days of the year, yet I was convinced there would be snow at the top of each peak.)
  1. I found this a lot more difficult than marathon/long run nutrition! In order to keep my backpack as light as possible, I packed multiple energy/protein bars and (unlike the others in my team) did not include any ‘real food.’ Unsurprisingly, by the time I had consumed my 9th energy bar, I felt pretty vile. It was verging on dangerous, and nobody wants to do a Paula Radcliffe.
  1. I was incredibly lucky as I completed the Three Peaks with a team of ladies who were familiar with the route. This may have resulted in me being slightly lazy, as I didn’t even need to consider things such as navigation and travel arrangements – if I were in charge of navigation, we would have all been doomed.

All in all, the Yorkshire Three Peak Challenge was a fantastic experience, and I am now SO keen to take on the National Three Peaks Challenge. Have you taken part in any of the Three Peaks challenges? Do you have any tips on the National Three Peaks Challenge – when is the best time of year to complete this etc.?

*The Yorkshire Three Peaks is a hiking challenge, taking on the following peaks: Pen-y-Ghent, Whernside and Ingleborough.

**I understand that some of these points may still be relevant for ultra marathons/trail marathons etc. However, I am comparing hiking the Three Peaks to my own marathon experiences thus far.

Richmond 10K – this is NOT a race review

This was not what I was planning to post today, but after feeling ever so inspired after yesterday’s Richmond 10K race, I thought it would be a shame not to blog about it!

The reason behind specifying that this is NOT a race review/recap, and apologies for being blunt, is because approximately 86% of the race reviews I have read (in a blogging context) have been rather…dull. Of course, this is not always the case – I have read some highly informative and engaging race reviews!

However, the majority of the race reviews I have come across have been along the lines of “I woke up at 5:32am. I was very tired. I ate a small bowl of porridge with peanut butter and pumpkin seeds. I set off at 6:18am. It took me 37 minutes to get the start line. Conditions were wet” etc etc. I may be exaggerating slightly (NEVER), but my point is, I don’t think a minute-by-minute account of the race will be of interest to anyone other than myself, therefore I wanted to list 3 things I loved about this race instead:

  1. It cost £14. It’s no secret that race prices are increasing (fairly dramatically in my opinion) – for example the London Winter Run costs £40, which in my opinion is absurd for a 10K. Granted, the Ranelagh Harriers’ Richmond 10K is small, local, and very low key and therefore is incomparable to a race like the London Winter Run. Nonetheless, I stand by my point – charging £40 for a race is off-putting and raises questions around elitism – therefore to pay £14 was a breath of fresh air!
  2. There were no morons. That is all.
  3. This is the most important point for me; this race really highlighted how incredibly supportive the running community can be. I cannot emphasise enough how important it is to surround yourself with people who share the same goals as you (apologies for the cliché but it’s true!) And of course a massive maaaaaassive MASSIVE thank you to my fellow club mate Toby for pacing me to my 10K PB!

This was a short but sweet post, purely to emphasise the positive impact of running or racing with friends/likeminded others. Not all races are like this, and of course not all races go to plan – but this one was pretty special!

Is there a particular race that stands out to you, and if so, why is this? Also, am I being a massive scrooge when it comes to race prices?!

Running Nutrition – My Biggest Mistakes!

Nutrition for Runners, and nutrition in general, is something that interests me greatly, particularly as I previously lived off a diet of cheese & wine & mojitos & Greggs sausage rolls (I now eat what I hope is a more nutrient-dense diet!)

There were a few nutritional blunders I made when I initially started running (and some of these are mistakes that I still make now) – the main culprits being as follows:

  1. Not Eating Enough!

Looking back, I was not eating nearly enough not only as a runner, but also as a human being. At the time, I thought I was eating ‘well’ (whatever that means?!) but in reality, my diet was highly restrictive, and I absolutely was NOT eating enough!

Although ultimately this was my choice, I think some of the nutritional guidelines for runners are a little dangerous/misleading. I remember reading a nutrition guide published in Runner’s World, which had a strong focus on effective substitutes – i.e. swapping in a “good” food to replace a so-called “bad” food. I can’t remember the exact foods they shamed, but I would put money on one of the examples being swapping in wholegrain bread to replace white bread (absolute classic).

There have been numerous discussions around assigning moral value to the foods that we eat, so I won’t bore you with rambling on about this topic (AHEM SLIMMING WORLD NAMING CERTAIN FOODS AS ‘SYNS.’ I still can’t get over how ridiculous and potentially damaging this is.) However, I will say that this did have an impact on me when I first began my running ‘journey’ (cringe), and not eating enough was a huge faux pas!

  1. Cutting out Major Food Groups

Following on from my previous point, for some bizarre reason I felt the need to eliminate entire food groups from my diet. I’m not one to buy into faddy diets, so to be honest I’m still unsure as to why I did this. I think I panicked…who knows.

This was not good for my body or metabolism. It was stupid. It was moronic.

  1. Mistimed Fibre Consumption

I have a fibre rich diet – lots of oats, whole grain pasta, fruit and beans. I always thought this was a positive thing – which essentially it is! This was until I took part in a 20-mile race and experienced terrible cramping and other undesirable symptoms and threw up on someone’s shoes (SURPRISE.)

This incident was almost definitely down to the timing of my fibre intake – obviously the time for excessive fibre is not pre-race!

  1. Not Drinking Enough Water

I know I have touched on this in a previous post, and I know that this one sounds obvious. However, this is something that I still underestimate, particularly when I am doing an easy run and don’t feel the T H I R S T.

  1. (Incorrect Energy Gel Usage)

This must be one of the most ridiculous (running related) things I have ever done, and I have put this point in brackets to emphasise that this was a one-off incident.

In my first ever race, I was handed an Energy Gel at one of the drinks stations. For some unknown reason, I thought that the Energy Gel was a muscle soothing concoction, therefore smothered the gel all over my aching legs.

The remainder of the race was rather unpleasant – I was highly aromatic, plus leaves and branches kept attaching themselves to my legs.

Whilst I’m sure that No. 5 is only relevant to me, it would be interesting to hear if anyone else has made any similar (or not so similar!) nutritional errors. What has been your biggest running nutrition mistake? Is there anything that you consistently struggle with nutrition wise?

‘Dangerous’ Strength Training

Most runners seem to be aware (even if they don’t agree!) that strength training is an essential component of training. If carried out correctly, strength training can increase speed, help to prevent injuries, improve running economy, alongside a variety of other benefits.

The purpose of this post is not to discuss the Science behind strength training for runners – I’m definitely not qualified to do that! What I want to explore is the problem with some of the strength training programmes I have been given by qualified Personal Trainers. (I did wonder whether a more apt title to this post could be ‘The Danger of Personal Trainers’ but something about this didn’t sit right with me.)

Unlike running, I don’t enjoy strength training, and therefore have always turned to the help of a personal trainer as I struggle to motivate myself in this area.

Without naming and shaming anyone, my main issue with previous personal trainers is that the training programmes they prescribed me were SO generic. In one particular instance, in spite of being assured that the programme was tailored to me as an individual, I began to see numerous people in the gym performing the EXACT SAME workout. Honestly – the EXACT. SAME. From start to finish – the same warm up, the same number of reps, the same stretches, the same EVERYTHING. Perhaps this was me being naïve, but I could not believe that I had been paying so much £££ for what was essentially a template that the PT had created and distributed to all his (or her – ANONYMITY etc.) clients.

The same PT advised me to carry out strength training at least 4 times per week, oblivious to my concerns that this may sabotage my running. My concerns turned out to be completely accurate; embarking on this strength training programme resulted in my legs being so sore that I couldn’t run for almost a week.

I have wasted a lot of time and £££ on PT’s who have put me through the same session each week, prescribed generic workouts, and ultimately increased my risk of injury. HOWEVER, I have recently started training with a PT who completely understands my goals both as an individual and as a runner – and this really excites me! (More about this on a later date.)

The moral of this woeful tale is obvious – find a PT who is genuinely invested in your progress and helping you reach your goals. Basically, find a PT who isn’t a moron.

Running While Female

I have SO MUCH to say on this topic (even more so than usual), therefore I’m going to publish 2 separate posts on a later date which will explore the following:

  • Cross Country (in line with recent discussions around gender inequality in XC running)
  • Running in a group

This post will focus solely on my experiences of running alone (as a female, obviously), as my experience when running in a group has unsurprisingly been quite different.

As expected (although obviously this should not be expected!!), many of my unpleasant experiences have taken place when running in summer. I was once told by Hortencia (if you have read any of my previous posts, Hortencia is a fictional character representative of a variety of moronic people I have come across) that I’m “asking for it” by wearing short shorts. Obviously, the phrase “asking for it” is complete and utter BS and I find it SO infuriating that people still say this.

I want to emphasise that nothing terrible has ever happened to me when running alone; certainly nothing that breaches catcalling, innuendos and other inappropriate comments made by someone in a car or on a bike. I wouldn’t say that I have ever been majorly concerned about my safety – it’s more that I find it incredibly irritating – although recently, 2 men shouted at me from their car so abruptly that I ran into the middle of the road out of shock.

I hate to admit this, but a culmination of cat calling and mildly (sometimes REALLY) repulsive comments has made me feel slightly vulnerable. If I’m running in the summer months or in the evening, occasionally I select routes that avoid main roads because I simply cannot be bothered with the possibility of unwanted attention. Sometimes I wear headphones purely to block out the sound of potential unwanted attention (can’t hear the morons over my music!)

It infuriates me that sometimes I feel the need to modify my run due to the potential behavior of others. It infuriates me that I feel that I cannot run in a sports bra and shorts in 30-degree heat. It infuriates me that some of my friends will only run on a treadmill to avoid harassment. It infuriates me that in 2018 this is still an issue that needs to be discussed! In case you couldn’t tell, I’m INFURIATED.

It would be great to hear your thoughts on this – what has your experience been as a female runner? I’m also curious to know how you deal with unwanted behaviour when running – how do you respond?

Strava & Motivation

I have actively steered clear of Strava for over two years, despite being told repeatedly “if it’s not on Strava, IT DIDN’T HAPPEN.” However, I recently succumbed and have been using Strava for the past couple of months (I knowwwww I’m VERY late to the game!)

There were a few reasons that I avoided Strava, the main one being that I knew I would compare myself to other runners. This is obviously a ridiculous thing to do – comparison is a recipe for disaster, although this is probably more to do with my mindset than Strava itself.

There is also the matter of social support (‘kudos’ in Strava’s case), which can be viewed as both a blessing and a curse. This is a much-debated topic across all social media platforms and is undoubtedly not a new phenomenon; ‘is social media good for your mental health’ is too broad a topic to cover here. However, this is something that I find particularly prevalent with Strava.

I personally think Strava is great as a social network, and I do find that encouragement and feedback from others has a positive impact on my level of motivation. Strava is unquestionably a fantastic tool for runners (and cyclists and swimmers and allllll the other athletes) in terms of monitoring progress, goal setting, creating a supportive community, discovering new routes and races etc. Running is often described as being a lonely sport, and I can appreciate how Strava has revolutionised this to an extent.

I think it is all dependent on what motivates you as an individual and therefore my views remain unchanged; I don’t think Strava was right for me when I first started out running as I would have found it a little overwhelming.

This is of course my personal view, and from speaking to other runners (both new and experienced), I know a lot of people strongly disagree with this!

I would love to hear your thoughts on this (do you find Strava a useful tool for motivation?) whether you are a runner/cyclist/swimmer/all of the above/none of the above!

Running and Mental Health

In line with Mental Health Awareness Week, I wanted to touch upon my personal experience with regards to how running has helped me.

9 years ago, an incident took place which I have struggled with on and off over the years. I’m not going to elaborate on this incident because that’s not the purpose of this post – and I don’t mean that in an ‘oooooh I’m such a mysterious and complex individual!!’ way. I simply want to highlight that I have tried and tested various coping mechanisms, and running has had by FAR the most impact.

I reached out for advice back in 2009 and exercise/running did not crop up once – it was not suggested as a form of therapy, therefore at this stage I didn’t even consider the positive impact that running might have on my mental health.

It seems like this is no longer the case; the UK official guidelines now prescribe exercise as one of the first-line treatments for a variety of mental health issues, which I think is great.

Why does running help? This is something that I have done a lot of research on, and it has become apparent that this is about so much more than endorphins. I am (obviously!) not a medical professional and am also in no way qualified to spout out potentially inaccurate second hand medical research, therefore I won’t attempt to! However, I do want to highlight that I have reaped both the physiological and psychological benefits of running – both of which are AMAZING.

Goal setting is often listed as one of the psychological benefits of running and setting new running/fitness goals is now something that really motivates me. A couple of upcoming races that I am particularly looking forward to are the Great North Run in September and taking part in my first ultra-marathon early next year (although the thought of an ultra does kind of make me feel physically sick – any advice would be much appreciated!)

I’m not claiming that running is a ‘miracle cure’, and there are certainly other factors that have played a significant role. These include some big changes I implemented with regards to nutrition and alcohol consumption (although I still greatly enjoy drinking all the wine and all the gin and all the cocktails when necessary). However, from personal experience, running is the best therapy I’ve ever had; it goes beyond the ‘runners high’ and initial buzz of endorphins and delves into something much deeper.

I would love to hear about your experiences with running and mental health – has running/fitness helped you?

Please contact me: mellissatelka@gmail.com

Things I wish I knew…

I was a rather ignorant runner for many months, partly due to lack of experience, and partly because I ignored 86% of the advice I received from seasoned runners.

I would like to think I have now matured both as a runner and as a general member of the human species, thus have taken on board feedback from those more knowledgeable than myself.

There are many things I wish I knew when I started running, but I have attempted to summarise these learnings into 3 key points:

Rest days. REST. R E S T

I saw rest days as lazy, and therefore very rarely took a day off from running. #NeverMissAMonday #NoDaysOff etc. etc.

Obviously this is complete and utter BS, and through a combination of skipping rest days and not hydrating sufficiently (to be discussed in a later post), I ended up fatiguing myself to the point where I ended up in hospital. So do NOT be as moronic as me.

Good running shoes

For the love of all that is holy, invest in a pair of running shoes that fit and support your feet effectively!! I spent almost £200 on my first pair of running shoes, which was ridiculous for 2 reasons:

  1. There is simply no need to spend so much £££
  2. The only reason I purchased said running shoes was because they were leopard print with bright pink soles

These leopard print monstrosities (please see them in action above at my first ever race! I also insisted on holding my phone – WHY) did not provide the support required, PLUS they were too small as they were my normal shoe size. Your running shoes should be at least a half size larger than your everyday shoe, due to swelling in your feet when you run.

The moral of the story is: please go and get a gait analysis – it’s free of charge, and only takes 10 – 15 minutes.

Engage with the running community

I am very lucky in the sense that I already knew quite a few fairly keen runners prior to beginning my running journey. These are the people who are genuinely interested in my race day nutrition plan, compression socks, and skanky post-marathon toenails. Equally, I am more than happy to hear about their chafing disaster or mid-race vom.

However, Hortencia* from Finance couldn’t care less; therefore, sparking up a conversation with Hortencia is fairly pointless and potentially de-motivating.

It took me over a year to build up the courage to join a running club, and therefore completely understand that this can be intimidating for new runners. Other alternatives include taking part in local races, various apps (for beginners I would recommend Couch to 5K/RunKeeper/Nike+) and/or finding a training partner.

My point is that it’s wonderful to have people (or a person) around you who not only motivate you, but also have an understanding of your end goal.

I hope these 3 tips have been beneficial for new runners – please do let me know if you have any feedback or questions!

*Please note I do not work with anyone called Hortencia. She is a fictional character, created solely for the purpose of this tale.

Why did I start running?

Prior to May 2016, I ran sporadically, and by sporadically I mean I ran a couple of times a month at a push, and loathed every second of it. I was not particularly interested in health and fitness; my diet consisted of microwaveable macaroni cheese/crunchy nut cornflakes/copious amounts of wine, and at school I hated PE lessons so much that I would skive off and hide in the music cupboard (behind the double bass, to be precise).

In April 2016, I went to China for a family member’s wedding. I don’t want to sound like a terrible cliché, so I won’t say this trip completely changed my life – but it most certainly sparked a massive change for the better. Throughout this two-week trip I had a varied diet of fish, seafood, noodles, steamed veg and so on. It is also worth noting that this was a fairly active trip, with lots of walking and cycling. Although the increased exercise and change in diet was more by chance than a conscious effort, by the time I’d arrived back in London I realised how much better I felt for it.

The benefits of eating well and implementing regular exercise soon became apparent – which sounds extremely obvious, but I think sometimes you have to experience these things first hand! I began running 5k a couple of times per week after work with some colleagues, and whilst I can’t pretend I magically fell in love with running, it stopped becoming a chore and instead became a form of escapism, a massive confidence booster, a stress reliever and so much more.

Two years and two marathons down the line, I can safely say that I am the healthiest, strongest version of myself. I’m aware that I’ve just contradicted my previous statement by saying something MASSIVELY clichéd, but it’s simply the truth of the matter.

There is one aspect of my lifestyle change that I found particularly challenging, and that was the negativity I received from a few of my close friends/family members/colleagues (just to clarify, this was a small amount of people! But nonetheless it came as a surprise). Frequent comments were along the lines of:

“You’ve become so boring, you used to be so much fun!”

“Your breakfast/lunch/dinner looks disgusting/unappetizing/dull!”

And my absolutely FAVOURITE (i.e. my worst): “I preferred how you looked before you started running” (this is one that I still hear quite frequently).

Whilst the above comments are not particularly offensive, I did begin to find it somewhat draining to hear the same comments on a regular basis. However, in the grand scheme of things, these comments do not impact me.

Running has had a positive impact on so many areas of my life – although people often shy away from mentioning weight loss, ultimately a combination of running and a shift in my approach to nutrition has helped me to achieve a strong, healthy body that I am proud of. Of course it goes a lot deeper than that – improvements in mental health and general wellbeing for a start, but I will delve into that in future posts.

I hope you enjoyed my first post – any feedback would be much appreciated! Also, if you found it boring/pointless/really average/really really average, feedback is still much appreciated.

Please contact me: mellissatelka@gmail.com